How I Manifested My Relationship

Hello beautiful souls! I keep getting asked on How I Manifested My Boyfriend so I am ready to spill the deets.

After being single for 5 years, I met the love of my life in Merida, Mexico and oh my goodness it’s been an adventure ever since.

One of my major 2021 goals was to manifest a soulmate and life partner but when I headed into May of 2021 still single, I wondered for a bit of it was even possible.

Luckily, 2021 is also the year I became a certified NLP Master Practitioner and Hypnotherapist which has been the most transformational and healing experience of my life.

First thing first, don’t get discouraged. Your person could be in a relationship right now learning valuable lessons that will help them be a better partner for you.

They could be going through a spiritual awakening, much needed personal growth, and possibly closing out other chapters of their life.

As challenging as it can be, have patience and trust.

Also, your person will not care about all those imperfections of yours that you are worrying about.

You need to find the love you seek within first before your person can come into your life. It starts with you.

Here are the actual steps I took to manifest my soulmate in less than 45 days.

Step 1: Get Clear On The Person You Desire

I made a list of everything I desired in a partner and I got as specific as possible. I then got clear on what I thought my person would desire in me thanks to the guidance of one of my coaches. Then I took it a step further and crossed off anything on my list that I felt I wasn’t already and journaled on those things. Keep in mind that we attract what we are not what we want.

Creating a list doesn't mean you don't stay open to people who don't fit your list 100 percent. You are just setting an intention and giving the Universe guidelines while also staying open to your person being a different package then your originally desired or thought. I always like to think of my desired manifestations as this or something better.

Step 2: Uncovering Limiting Beliefs Holding You Back

I uncovered and let go of the belief that I was unworthy of true healthy love because I was a single mom. I didn’t even know I had this belief so it shocked me. I changed the belief to I am worthy of healthy love because I was born worthy. I don’t have to do anything to be worthy I just am and you can’t lose your worthiness ever. You are worthy because you were born worthy.

Step 3: Step Into Your New Identity

I dropped the single mom identity and i stepped the version of myself who was in loving and committed relationship with the love of my life. I jumped ahead in time and asked the future version of myself that was already in the relationship of my dreams what she did to get there? How did she think, act, believe, what were her habits and then I emptied that future version of me in the present.

Step 4: Trust and Decide

I decided to let go and just trust he was on his way. I didn’t feel lack. I knew I would be in a loving and committed relationship because I decided I would be. You can make that same decision.

45 days after starting this process I hired a photographer in Mexico who ended up being the love of my life. Just like that and the rest is history.

It feels so good to be loved the way he loves me. It feels so good watching a man love my children who are not biologically his.

I believe whole heartedly that you can have the same. It starts with you.

This is the magic and YOU are READY!